A Memorable Baby

On Saturday we took a trip to see Erik and Cam's new addition Reece. Evie Lu was enthralled with her new friend. As Kaia was holding Reece, Evie Lu plopped down next to her and held her arms out expecting to hold Reece. Not yet, Evie Lu. We've been giving Evie Lu a Reece fix by looking at Erik and Cam's blog. Here is what that looks like.

Snow Fun

I'm going to get you!

We've been hit with some serious snow and that meant bundling Evie Lu up to go play. She likes the idea of snow more than the reality, but throwing snowballs was a real thrill for her. Somewhere along the way Evie Lu got it into her head that "snowman" is the word for snow. When you ask her if there is snow, she points and says, "Snowman!" The best was today when she told us she was walking in the snowman.

Snowflakes are tasty.

Singing At Supper

Getting ready for Christmas!

Will got a Christmas tree last week and we spent Friday night decorating it. Evie "helped" by holding Christmas lights for me and hanging ornaments (and taking them down and putting them back up, repeatedly). We have the tree lights on a power strip, and Evie has learned to flip the switch to turn the lights on and off. She is very proud of herself, and walks around the house saying "lights on!" or "lights off!".



This princess dress is a hand me down from one of Will's coworkers. Will has been trying to get Evie to wear it, and this is the only time she would put it on. I guess she isn't into dress up yet (unless it is Will's baseball cap or my dress shoes).



With the tree up, our house now feels festive and cozy, making it nice to be at home. That's a good thing, because we have been spending a lot of time at home. Evie woke up on Monday morning with what looked like pink eye. The doctor took one look at her and confirmed our diagnosis. The doctor also found Evie had a double ear infection. Oh, how we love daycare! She wasn't running a fever or tugging at her ears, so we saw no sign of an infection. But now we have a reason for her recent crabbiness. Anyway, Will and I are taking turns being stay at home parents with our little toddler until her ears and eyes clear up. The antibiotics must be working as she seems on the mend. If it isn't one thing, it's another!

A tale of two toddlers

Evie is in the middle of a language explosion. We knew she was hitting some kind of developmental milestone because she has been waking up a lot during the night lately. The conversations have been delightful, but her new language also means she can make it very clear what she wants. Instead of pictures, I have two conversations demonstrating Evie's two sides.

Setting 1: Bedtime
Evie (pointing at my eyes): Glasses. Eyes!
Me: Yes. Mommy wears glasses over her eyes. Does Daddy wear glasses?
Evie: No!
Me: Does Oscar wear glasses?
Evie (laughing): Nooo!!
Me: Time to sleep, Evie. I love you very much!
Evie (thumb in mouth): Vivi loves Mama much.

I had to pull her thumb out and ask her what she said again. Clear as a bell, she says "Vivi loves Mama much". Heart melting. It is also kind of cute that she now refers to herself as "Vivi".

Setting 2: Dinner
Me: Time to eat, Evie.
Evie (pleading): Applesauce?
Me: No. Tonight we are having beans and rice!
Evie (stating matter-of-factly): Applesauce. Oat-meeeeal.
Me: No, we have oatmeal for breakfast. Now we have beans and rice.
Evie: Applesauce! AAAAAAaaaaahhh!!

And now we are all reduced to tears (and yelling and more tears and lots of snot). Applesauce is her favorite food, with oatmeal a close second. Go figure. The good news is, she is learning to be independent. The bad news is, she is learning to be independent.

A Thanksgiving Feast

My Aunt Megan taught me you have to keep food separate.


Yesterday a sign went up at Evie Lu's daycare announcing a Thanksgiving Feast and parents were invited. Always a fan of feasts, I joined our little girl for lunch at school. The food was about what you would expect, but the company was fantastic. Evangeline was a little confused when I showed up and had no intention of taking her home right away. (This was a common theme with kids and parents throughout lunch.)

I shared my roll with Evie Lu (my girl loves her carbs) and she offered me some of her green beans. The sweetest part was getting to wash her hands after lunch and seeing her go to her cot for a nap. (I'm thinking we need to get one at home because at daycare she flops onto it and practically goes to sleep immediately.) I kissed Evie Lu's cheek and then left one of the greatest lunches ever.

What? No seriously. What?


And also Happy Birthday Brady!

Evie Lu's First Dance

Evie Lu is sick again and it is my turn to stay home with her while Kaia is at work. We worked on getting video of her telling everyone, "I love you!", but Evie Lu just wasn't feeling it today. Instead here is a sweet moment from Evie Lu's first week. You can tell exactly when Kaia notices I'm recording.

Lego Land

One more block and I may be done!


One of my co-workers has twin three year old girls and she has been taking care of us with some great hand me downs for Evie Lu. We've received dresses, outfits, and most recently a giant bag of Legos. Evie Lu loves blocks and she's over the moon about the Legos. (Kaia and I have been having quite a bit of fun as well.) As a dad it makes me very happy to see my little girl has as much fun building things as she does destroying them after the building is complete. Go Evie!

Do I see a mess? No, I see genius at work!

Pony Girl

This is too much fun!

Kaia and I have moved from dressing Evie Lu up in ridiculous outfits to Evie Lu dressing herself up. It is great. These pictures are from an afternoon when just Evie and I were home. She went into her playroom and came out in the hat and carrying her stick horse. (I picked up the stick horse this summer because every kid needs one.) Evie Lu has a great time pretending she's riding the range or herding Oscar.

I'll see you down the trail partners.

A Walk In The Woods

Would you like to come hiking with me?

We are in early November and our house is ready for cold and flu season to be over. Evie Lu still hasn't completely shaken her sickness and this weekend Kaia had to take care of Evie Lu, Oscar, and me since we were all under the weather. Kaia deserves a medal.

Leave nothing but footprints. Take nothing but pictures and giant leaves!


Despite all the sickness we've been managing to have a lot of fun in between coughs. The most fun is seeing how Evie Lu is becoming a little girl. She plays little games and her imagination is in top gear almost constantly. This week will feature some pictures of Evie Lu in full play mode.

I'll see you on the trail.

Evie Lu - Oscar Tamer

Oscar, follow the feathers!

Evie Lu and Oscar have an interesting relationship. Evangeline loves having an addition to the house that she can boss around, but she is not very patient with Oscar all the time. She really wants to treat him like a plaything and thankfully Oscar is pretty low key. When they do play well together it is a riot. We let Evie Lu use the feather toy and Oscar loved it. We just needed to make sure the toy didn't get used as a whip.

You will obey me.

Lions, and Croup, and Candy . . . Oh My!

Yeah, I'm cool. I've got candy.

Kaia and I were discussing that in your twenties you choose whether you want to stay up all night, but in your thirties it is the choices you've made that keep you up. That being said, Evie Lu has given us quite the eventful week.

Tuesday night we called ask a nurse about Evangeline's cough and labored breathing. We were certain she had croup, but the nurse's reaction sent us into panic mode. We were instructed to call 911 immediately. Evie Lu and Kaia were whisked off in an ambulance while I followed in the car. The emergency room doctor gave our little girl steroids and some other medication and sent us home. Whew.

After trick or treating thumb sucking and dad hugs are necessary.


Kaia and Evie Lu stayed home the next day and I think Kaia and Oscar the cat were the worse for wear. Evie Lu loves to try and steer Oscar by his tail, loves to hug him, and if he would sit still for it I'm sure Evie would try to dress him in doll clothes. We have a very patient cat and Kaia deserves the mother of the year award.

Story time with mom helps little lions settle down.


Oh Halloween Evie Lu and Kaia hit the mall to do trick or treating and our lion was a big hit. Of course we have a time delayed lion as Evangeline gets shy in front of people, but bold as soon as walks away. Kaia would ask Evie, "What does a lion say?" Evie Lu would stand silently staring at the people holding candy. Kaia tells the nice people, "I'm sorry she's shy." My ladies take five steps away and then Evie roars and says, "tick or tea." Maybe we should be off to see the wizard for our cowardly lion.

The End

Talking 'Bout Playdoh

The artist at work


Have I mentioned that Evie Lu has the best mom ever? Kaia recently made playdoh for Evangeline and our little girl loved it. You can see the green version, but there is also a blue, a red, and a hybrid made from Evie Lu mixing them together. Kaia said Evie Lu played for an hour at one sitting!

This is what happens when you ask me to smile


These days Evie Lu is all about pretend play. Whether she's making you dinner or performing some surgery on Oscar (have I mentioned our cat is very patient?) Evie Lu is seemingly always on the imaginary move. Kaia and I have caught ourselves laughing out loud at some of the things Evangeline does. She's something else.

Here is my real smile and it is for Grandma Bev today

Evie Lu's New Friend

Kaia and I both have very fond memories of the pets our families had when we were younger and this weekend with Grandma Bev in tow we picked out a new member of our little family. Evie Lu's new pet is a one year old cat named Oscar. Oscar is a sweetheart of a guy who was rescued from a cat hoarder. Evangeline really likes him, although getting the two of them to sit still for a picture has been impossible so far. Evie Lu doesn't say Oscar exactly, but she does say "Oskies." It is too cute.

A Weekend With Grandma Bev

Evie Lu and one of her "Bahpahs"


This weekend brought a visit from an under the weather Grandma Bev. (It is in the character of grandmothers not to let any kind of flu or virus prevent them from seeing their grandchildren.) So despite not really being able to hear, Grandma Bev and Evie Lu had a great few days together. There were many stories read, laughs shared, and of course plenty of hugs. Evie Lu can't wait until she gets to spend more time with her grandmas, after all December is just around the corner!

Stay tuned for an announcement about a new addition to our home!

Just A Little Chat Over Snack

A Pox On You

The artist at work.

There are times when you have to ask, "Is this a coincidence or part of some evil genius' plan?" Today is one of those times. Evie Lu's daycare had a teacher training day scheduled for Monday and so they are closed, but would Evie Lu have gone to daycare today? No, because she has the chicken pox. Interestingly enough Evie's doctor said the worst should be over by Tuesday and our little girl probably wouldn't be contagious by Tuesday or Wednesday. Hmmm. (Imagine toddler teachers tapping their fingers together making evil genius hand motions.)

Do you want me to sign it for you?


As a result of having a sick little girl we've ramped up indoor fun time at our house. (When I say "we" you should think "Kaia." My lovely wife is by far the more creative and fun parent.) On Saturday it was watercolor paint day. (We'll have to have Grandma Rhonda give Evie Lu painting lessons when she comes for Christmas.) Our rainy day baby is doing well, all things considered.

Not quite Picasso, but definitely Evie Lu!

Duets With Dad

Mommy would never know if I took her snacks and pens.


I get worried sometimes that Evie Lu is not keeping pace with other toddlers in the communication realm. I see other almost two year olds saying "I love you" clear as day (I'm looking at you Olivia) and I wonder when Evangeline will take that next step and have understandable full sentences. Kaia keeps pointing out all the things Evie Lu does say and how she is communicating more clearly every day. Yesterday, I stopped worrying so much.

I was sitting with Evie Lu as we waited for Kaia to come home and I asked Evie Lu what song she wanted to sing. Evie Lu replied, "Old MacDonald." I was shocked. So we sang Old MacDonald and Evie Lu joined in on the animal sounds and the E I E I Ohs. It was great. (It honor of Aunt Kaitlin, whom Evie Lu calls Aunt Kay Kay, there was a lion on the farm.) Singing with Evie Lu is the best.

Watch out for the "naners."

Getting Better All The Time

A whole week of antibiotics later and our girl is 100% healthy. Unfortunately, going so long without her thumb has messed with her sleep cycle. We'll take missed sleep as long as it means Evie Lu is okay.

The funniest moment of the week was when we thought Evie Lu was starting to swear. Fortunately she was telling us her fork was on the table by saying, "Ah, fork." Kaia and I were mortified at first, but when we realized what was going on it was really funny. Yikes.

My Sick Thumb

Life is hard when the thumb you go to for comfort is put on the disabled list. Unfortunately for our household, Evie Lu developed a staph infection on her thumbsucking thumb late last week. This meant instead of a cute story over the weekend we have only the no sleep story.
It breaks my heart to see Evie Lu in pain and it is even worse knowing the pain isn't a scraped knee that I can make better. Evie Lu is on the mend thanks to antibiotics, but I'd be lying if I said having her in daycare today didn't make me really nervous.
We'll post some cute pictures soon to balance out the trauma.

A Kiss For Everyone

Thanks to Aunt Megan for the great picture. Here Evie Lu is ready to give someone a kiss. It is probably one of her aunts since this morning she repeated Aunt Megan and Aunt Becky after I said their names. You can pretend it is for you though.

A Great Traveller

Dad, you are ridiculous.

We had a whirlwind weekend of seeing Evie Lu's aunt Megan get ordained, catching up with family, and spending way too much time on a plane. Grandma Bev pointed out that we would be on the ground for exactly 48 hours before taking off again. Ugh!

Evie Lu handled the whole trip like a champ. She was fascinated with the plane on this trip and I think the feeling of landing was her favorite part. In her 48 hours in Minnesota, Evie Lu sat through two church services and was better for Grandma Bev than she ever is for Kaia. (I think we need to bring Grandma Bev or Grandma Rhonda to church with us every week.)

If you find yourself in the Minneapolis airport with some time to kill, I recommend heading toward the F concourse where Travellers Insurance has a series of ads that are interactive. When you wave your hand in front of the big red umbrella it blows away into tiny red umbrellas then comes back together. Evie Lu and I spent quite a bit of time playing with this ad. If my daughter grows up to sell insurance I'll know why.

Off To Minnesota

You mean I get to see Uncle Chris again?!?


We are off to get Evie Lu's Aunt Megan ordained! We will only be with family for one full day, but it will be a great celebration. Here's hoping Evie Lu still does as well flying now as she has in the past.

The Story Of The Weekend

Aunt Kaitlin I have no signal here.


There are times when being a parent provides far more comic relief than I ever thought possible and Saturday night was one of those times.

Saturday afternoon was gorgeous and our little family went out to a local park where Evie Lu had a great time. There was a little kid slide and a big kid slide and she spent an hour running from slide to slide, laughing the whole way. When we got home Evangeline was warm and after a diaper change I decided pants were unnecessary for the rest of the night.

Dinner was pizza and Evie Lu went without a bib since a bath was looming large in her future. Evangeline got pizza everywhere and so her shirt came of next. After dinner was done we had about twenty minutes until bath time. Our diaper only wearing baby was playing and going between talking to me as I washed dishes and Kaia as she worked on her general exam. Evie Lu walked up to me with her pizza stained shirt and I asked her, "Evie can you take your shirt and put it in your hamper?" Evie Lu toddled off.

Then there was silence. I swear it wasn't more than a couple of minutes, but when I realized I didn't hear Evie Lu anymore I called out to her and walked toward her room. At that moment Kaia called out to me from her office, "Will, did you take Evie's diaper off?" I looked into to the office to see our little girl stark naked standing next to Kaia. After we stopped laughing we realized there was a missing diaper to be found. Kaia asked Evie where she put the diaper and Evie took us into her bedroom and pointed to the diaper pail.

Evangeline had taken her diaper off and placed it where diapers should go. I was impressed and realized at that moment pants were a necessity in our house now.

New Tricks

Can you see what I did?

This morning I asked Evie Lu if she wanted a banana with breakfast and she replied, "oh nice." Kaia and I looked at each other in a bit of shock and Kaia asked, "You know where she learned that don't you?" I hadn't realized how often I say "nice." It is a lot apparently. We have also recently heard, "wow", a very Minnesota sounding "oh no", "phone", "milk please", and "no mail." The last phrase came about because every day I pick Evie Lu up from daycare we come home and she helps me check the mail. Oh nice!

Evie Lu has also discovered she can take her socks off and put them on her hands. This tickles her to no end. Evie Lu tried to eat some animal crackers while wearing socks on her hands this weekend. (This did not work so well.)

Socks on my hands!

A Day At The Beach

What? I've got sand where?


Four new teeth, three house guests, two exhausted parents, and one general exam coming up quickly make for a crazy time for our little family.

Evie Lu got reacquainted with Aunt Megan, Uncle Chris, and Jillian over the labor day weekend and I think it is safe to say Uncle Chris is the favorite. Evangeline took a bit of time to warm up to everyone, but once she did she chose Chris as her buddy and they played for a really long time.

Evie Lu has four teeth coming in all at once and this has not been conducive to quality sleep for anyone. We knew something was up when we caught Evie Lu trying to stuff an entire blanket in her mouth and bit down hard. Thank goodness for baby Tylenol which helps the discomfort. I think I'll go take some now.

I'm serious about snacks.

Evie Lu - Rock Star Rules

You must study your instrument.


Evie Lu has graduated for the first time in her school life. She has moved from Toddler A to Toddler B. I told her it sounded like a demotion to me and I'd talk to her manager if I was Evie Lu. Evie Lu actually should have moved two months ago, but Miss Sharon liked her so much she kept her in the Toddler A classroom for an extra month and a half. (That's what I tell people about the four years I spent in third grade.)

In Toddler B Evie Lu is hanging out with other 1.5 to 2 year olds and having a great time. Evangeline is so animated these days and you can tell she's picking up a lot from other kids. (And thankfully not just germs!)

Don't be afraid to look foolish as you play.


We are getting ready to welcome Evie Lu's Aunt Megan, Uncle Chris, and Aunt by adoption Jillian. The last time Jillian came to visit us (she actually came to visit Dave Matthews, but that is another story) Evie Lu was working hard on crawling. Jillian made it her mission to get Evangeline to crawl. Jillian failed, but it was a noble effort. Fast forward a year and I'm afraid of what they will decide to try and teach Evie Lu. She is such a mimic.

Remember to pose often. You never know where your fans are.

Our Little Cook

I like to sit when I cook.


Since Grandma Bev got a shout out in the last post, I figured we needed to get Grandpa Wayne in the mix too. (Grandma Rhonda we'll just have to take tons of pictures when you come for Christmas!) Grandpa Wayne came bearing gifts for Evie Lu from Minnesota. He brought Kaia's childhood chair/step stool and some play cookware. Evie Lu took to both right away. If you come over and ask nicely, Evie Lu will cook for you too!

I'll make Grandpa taste it first.

Sorry, Grandma Bev...

...but it was so warm, and I was so cute, that I kept my sundress on after church. In fact, it was so comfy that running outside in the sun, rolling on the ground, and splashing in my pool was as easy as pie. Hmmm...pie. Because all this dress needs is another stain. Oh, well. I'm nothing a bath and oxyclean can't handle.

Missing My Ladies

Slip slidin' away!

Travelling without Kaia and Evie Lu is never as much fun as travelling with them, but it is really hard when you are seeing family and friends. (The number one question I get, "Did Kaia and Evie Lu come out too?" The second question is, "Why didn't Kaia and Evie Lu come out?") I know I'm loved, but I'm far from the main attraction.

I'm coming to get you.


These are some great pictures from an Evie Lu trip to the park. The picture below is great because the way Evie Lu has her tongue between her teeth and smiling is just like my dad. It is funny how depending on what Evie Lu is doing who I think she looks like. There is a picture of Evie Lu staring up at Grandma Bev and you have no doubt that they are related. I see my dad in Evangeline's face in this one.

Making a face like Grandpa Ralph.